What’s it all about?
What’s it all about?
This site is about bondage. Not the bondage of the tabloid press and sensationalist headlines that forget the human beings beneath the surface of the paper selling stories.
This is about the bondage of that comes from the humanity of those that participate in this fascinating practice. This is bondage done with love and care. This is bondage that is done because it is beautiful, because it is an expression of love.
This is about the bondage that I find beautiful and heartbreaking.
This is a world of intense emotion and sensation.
An expression I find particularly useful in describing this is ‘beautiful suffering’. It is where sensation is taken to the limits of what is possible, where emotion is experienced to its utmost. It is where we are alive as completely as we can be while being as together as we can.
It is also about the art we love.
In the living of these moments it is our utopia.
I don’t do rope, I do people
- Shibari torture bondage with Raggydoll 2015wykd
- Doobsay Torturous Shibari Bondage Sessionwykd
- Ariel Anderssen (菱縄縛り)wykd
- Kali Shibari bondage 2011wykd
- Shibari bondage shoot from 2011wykd
- Gorgone part One shibari rope bondage shootwykd
- Artemis Fauna Shibari bondage shoot.wykd
- Dark Fairy Dark Shibari setwykd
- Miu caught and tied. Shibari punishmentwykd
- SapphireBlu shibari bondage shoot 2014wykd
- Raine rope bondage shoot. Shibari shoot 2013.wykd
- Beauvoir second shibari bondage shootwykd
- Nancy Wang Shibari bondage shoot.wykd
- Fuoco shibari rope bondage shoot (June 2014)wykd
- Raremens shibari May 2011wykd
- Gestalta shibari bondage shoot June 2014wykd
- Cheeky KO shibari shoot June 2014wykd
- Adreena Winters.wykd
- Digital Devil (May 2014)wykd
- CheekyKO Shibari bondage sessionwykd
- SapphiereBlu Shibari bondage and suspension shoot 2012wykd
- Casey Calvert bondage in LA 2014wykd
- Bondage with Xenia Seurat, SkinnyRedhead, Maya Hommerton and Cloverwykd
- Allegra shibari bondage shoot 2014wykd
- Shibari bondage shoot.wykd
- Gorgone and Fuoco Shibari bondage double the fun.wykd
- Asian Bella shibari bondage in Baltimore 2012wykd
- Beauvoir shibari bondage shoot 2012wykd
- Red Kali Shibari bondage shoot.wykd
- Miss Bones Shibari bondage setwykd
- Adreena Winters shibari bondage shoot 2012wykd
- Ruby Rosetta (Rosetta Stoned) shibari bondage shoot.wykd
- Rarements first shibari bondage shoot.wykd
- Raine in torture shibari bondagewykd
- MeadFairy Shibari bondage sessionwykd
- Lisa Smiths Shibari bondage shoot. Hishi shibari.wykd
- Shibari rope bondage with Lexi.wykd
- KittySprite, dirty bondage, shibari, torture.wykd
- Kali shibari bondage shootwykd
- Indoor and outdoor bondage, hishi gote.wykd
- Shibari circle (Three girls tied)wykd
- Beauvoir first shibari bondage shoot.wykd
- Adreena shibari bondage session (one)wykd
- Miu shibari bondage (one)wykd
- Jojo bound, shibari 2010wykd
- Hay, shibari in the woods.wykd
- Hay & Serene Chaoswykd
- Clover (one) Shibari bondagewykd
- Clover shot by Xenia Seuratwykd
- Molly Dollywykd
- Shoot with Xenia Seuratwykd
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We live only for the moment, in which we admire the splendour of the moonlight, the snow, the cherry blossom and the colours of the maple-leaves. We enjoy the day, warmed by wine, without allowing the poverty which stares us in the face to restore our sobriety. In this drifting – like a pumpkin carried along by the current of the river – we do not allow ourselves to be discouraged for a moment.
This is what is called the floating, fleeting world.
~Ukiyo Monogatari by Asai Ryoi
We are kinky, we are lascivious we are lustful we are experience junkies, we are sensualists.
From everything I know of myself and my friends, what we ultimately want is to experience life and our partners. The sensations of our experience, our interactions, the experience of our reaction to the reactions of others. Everything in kink is I think on some level about experience and sensation.
Why? Because it makes us alive. Life is about experience, the things that happen in it both good and bad.
As individuals in kink I think many are driven by the need to extend our experiences beyond the mundane, to not be limited in our experiences. To take an experience otherwise unpleasant and to pervert that into a sensual feast for the kinkster is I think the obvious expression of this.
Spanking, beating, flogging, caning, restraint, rope, chains, whips and all manner of roleplay scenario are pressed into the service of this goal. People roleplay and act out taboos. In fact this is one of the things that people misunderstand. Something that would in reality be very unpleasant is taken and turned into something fun, thrilling, erotic. To fail to understand the distinction between playing with the idea of something and the thing itself is to fail to understand how these kinds of play work entirely.
All of these things are about vivid, intense experiences. In extremis we are brought more presently into the moment we live and live that moment more completely.
Sometimes kinksters are reviled as sub human, freaks, lacking in feeling and empathy. This is I believe the opposite of the truth. It is very human to seek experience. I think those that limit their experiences are strange. I give my partner experiences and sensation because I have empathy, because in those moments we are so connected.
We yearn to experience… It’s only human.