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Visitors from America & Last minute travel arrangements.

Today we found out that Ryanair had cancelled our flights to Warsaw Poland and we were therefore left with no means to travel to the event. Happily we’ve been able to book alternative flights tonight and will now definitely be going!

Also today we have the pleasure of friends visiting from America. They’re here for all too short a stay but we’re very glad they came. Had a good day and looking forward to tomorrow.

We are about to get even busier with shibari and travel. So time to get on it and get moving to Poland, USA and Czech Republic to round of this year. Looking forward to all the rope travels to come. Insane bookings for 2018 already!

What is Shibari?

In Japanese “Shibari” means to tie.

In the world outside of Japan it describes the art of Japanese style rope bondage.

This site is dedicated to my pursuit of that art.

Who are we?

We’re WykD Dave & Clover a couple from the UK (though Clover is Irish) who love and live shibari bondage.

We teach our style of bondage all over the world combining education for tops and bottoms since 2010.

Dave is an internationally recognised rigger and his work has appeared in motion pictures, music videos, fashion magazines & Paris’ Louvre gallery amongst many others.

Clover is the author of the rope bottom guide and a great photographer of shibari.

Up Next!

Shibari Dojo Warsaw

Two day intensive at the Shibari Dojo Warsaw

The purpose of our two day workshops is to give an intensive session of learning where the aim is to give the greatest benefit to every attendee. The workshop will contain information for both tops and bottoms including working together with communication and understanding between partners.

WykD Dave & Clover Wasaw Shibari Dojo October 2017 (Photo by Amaury Grisel)

The content of the workshop will be modified depending on the level and needs of the attendees. This adaptive approach allows us to tailor the class to the requirements of the group and to concentrate learning where it will do the most good.

The workshop will not be purely technical but also cover the intention, aesthetics and beauty of bondage and suffering.

Shibari Dojo Warsaw

Shibari 2017

  • London, UK (January)  Event passed on 28th Jan 2017 Blog

  • Rome, Italy (February)  Event passed on 3rd Feb 2017

  • Jamaica (April) Vlog

  • Prague (April)

  • Dallas, USA (April) Blog

  • Brighton (July) Event passed on 29th Jul 2017 Blog

  • Bristol (September) Event passed on 10th Sep 2017

  • Wasaw, Poland (October) Event passed on 13th Oct 2017

  • LA, USA (October) Event passed on 28th Oct 2017

  • St. Louis, USA (November) Event passed on 2nd Nov 2017

  • Czech Shibari Festival (November) (Nov) 0 days remaining

Shibari 2018

  • Beachbind Rope-Topia. Be WykD for a week!
    (Jamaica) (Apr) 141 days remaining

  • Bondage Expo Dallas (USA) (Apr) 161 days remaining

  • TBC

What is this shibari stuff all about?

This site is about shibari bondage. It’s not the bondage of the tabloid press and sensationalist headlines that forget the human beings beneath the surface of the paper selling stories.

This is about the bondage called shibari or kinbaku that comes from the humanity of those that participate in this fascinating practice. This is shibari done with love and care. This is kinbaku that is done because it is beautiful, because it is an expression of love.

This is about the kind of shibari that I find beautiful and heartbreaking, the kind of kinbaku that I find most emotional

This is a world of intense emotion and sensation.

An expression I find particularly useful in describing this is ‘beautiful suffering’. It is where sensation is taken to the limits of what is possible, where emotion is experienced to its utmost. It is where we are alive as completely as we can be while being as together as we can.

It is also about the shibari art I love.

In the living experience of these moments in rope it is our utopia.

Dave Rickman
(WykD Dave)

I don’t do rope, I do people (but I do them with rope).

Shibari bondage, suspension in takatekote & futomomo. Model Xian.

Shibari travel & Bondage performance blogs.

More shibari travels blogs coming up soon, the latest from out trip to LA is up now and I promise I’m working to bring you up to date with the remaining blogs I’m behind with.

Also we have some epic travels coming up. Looking forward to sharing those. I’m really going to have to start keeping a diary.

WykD TK 4 Week Course

A unique course on the WykD method TK over 4 weeks with 2 hours of tuition every week. In this unique course you will receive in depth information and tuition on every aspect of the [...]

London shibari intensive at Anatomie studio in 2017

Earlier this year on the 28th and 29th of January we did  a two day shibari intensive at Anatomie Studio in London.

  • Brighton

South Coast Shibari Group July 2017

We had a one day rope bondage intensive in Brighton (or the magnificently named Rottingdean near Brighton) at the invitation of the South Coast Shibari Group. We had a really good day and covered a [...]

FKA Twigs ~ Pendulum

This video won the MOBO award for best video 2015!

Recently I had the great pleasure of working on this video for FKA Twigs song Pendulum. This was a great experience working with some wonderful creative people. Beautiful song and a beautiful video directed by Twigs herself.

A great feature of this video is the incredible hair extensions that were made a part of the bondage itself. For that part it was a great pleasure to work with Japanese stylist Soichi Inagaki a very creative artist and an absolutely lovely person to work with.

Again I just feel lucky to have had the chance to work with so many really amazing people.

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Rope by WykD Dave and photography by Clover.

10 images and 1 large print for only £350.00

Images are yours to use or keep private as you wish. We will never publish them.

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Recent posts and opinions about the world of shibari bondage

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SWAMP Shibari Show

Shibari bondage frame made by Handrolld of McKinney, Texas. For a long time our friend Jahc has been trying to get us to come and do a performance at SWAMP in Bristol.  A [...]

  • Beautiful moment after intense kinbaku performance with Clover & WykD Dave

A love letter.

If I could be sentimental for a moment... Without a doubt, without question my partner in life Clover is the best part of that life. I cannot imagine life without her and cannot imagine I'd [...]

Tokyo Shibari Osada Steve, Otonawa, Kinoko & Naka Akira, Iroha Shizuki, Shigonawa Bingo, Yoi Yoshida March 2016

Tokyo Japan in March 2016. The weather find, the cherry blossoms beginning to bloom. My memory of these events is at one and the same time vivid but probably incomplete due to the time elapsed [...]

London shibari intensive at Anatomie studio in 2017

Earlier this year on the 28th and 29th of January we did  a two day shibari intensive at Anatomie Studio in London.

Recent shibari bondage galleries

Shibari bondage videos

Shibari tutorials

We live only for the moment, in which we admire the splendour of the moonlight, the snow, the cherry blossom and the colours of the maple-leaves. We enjoy the day, warmed by wine, without allowing the poverty which stares us in the face to restore our sobriety. In this drifting – like a pumpkin carried along by the current of the river – we do not allow ourselves to be discouraged for a moment.

This is what is called the floating, fleeting world.

~Ukiyo Monogatari by Asai Ryoi

By the water lilies on the lake

Available as a fine art print up to 32″ x 24″

We are kinky, we are lascivious we are lustful we are experience junkies, we are sensualists.

From everything I know of myself and my friends, what we ultimately want is to experience life and our partners. The sensations of our experience, our interactions, the experience of our reaction to the reactions of others. Everything in kink is I think on some level about experience and sensation.

Why? Because it makes us alive. Life is about experience, the things that happen in it both good and bad.

As individuals in kink I think many are driven by the need to extend our experiences beyond the mundane, to not be limited in our experiences. To take an experience otherwise unpleasant and to pervert that into a sensual feast for the kinkster is I think the obvious expression of this.

Spanking, beating, flogging, caning, restraint, rope, chains, whips and all manner of roleplay scenario are pressed into the service of this goal. People roleplay and act out taboos. In fact this is one of the things that people misunderstand. Something that would in reality be very unpleasant is taken and turned into something fun, thrilling, erotic. To fail to understand the distinction between playing with the idea of something and the thing itself is to fail to understand how these kinds of play work entirely.

All of these things are about vivid, intense experiences. In extremis we are brought more presently into the moment we live and live that moment more completely.

Sometimes kinksters are reviled as sub human, freaks, lacking in feeling and empathy. This is I believe the opposite of the truth. It is very human to seek experience. I think those that limit their experiences are strange. I give my partner experiences and sensation because I have empathy, because in those moments we are so connected.

We yearn to experience… It’s only human.

Here you will find shibari related blogs, shibari tutorials and shibari bondage/kinbaku bondage photosets. Thanks for visiting.

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